Wednesday, November 30, 2005
understanding gals
44 things guys shld noe abt gerls.
1. Don`t tell us when you think other girls are hot.
2. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
3. If you don't act like soap-opera guys, don`t expect us to dress like Victoria Secret Models.
4. Mark anniversaries on the calendar.
5. We think about you all the time
6 This is how we see it : Don't call = Don't care.
7. Which also means that if we don`t call, take a hint.
8. We like you to be a little jealous. But overly possesive is not necessary.
9. Being able to make us laugh is so much more important than knowing how much you can bench-press.
10. We're allowed to be late. You're not.
11. Eye contact is the key.
12. Don't take longer to get ready than we do.
13. Laugh at our jokes.
14. 3 words: honesty, honesty, honesty!
15. Girls can be groupies. Guy groupies are stalkers.
16. Do not start with us. You will not win.
17. Would you like it if a guy treated your sister that way? Didn't think so.
18 If you ask nicely, we`ll answer the same way.
19. We will never have enough clothes or shoes.
20. We have an excuse for being bitchy at least once a month.
21 Open the door for us no matter where we are.
22. We love surprises.
23. We like to be kissed softly. Not with an iron tongue.
24. Pay attention to the little things we do,because they mean the most.
25. Boxers and maybe boxer briefs sometimes.Never tighty-whities!
26. Always brush your teeth before you see us. A fresh mouth and white teeth are a necessity.
27. Clean your room before we come over.
28. Even though you're sometimes insensitive and hurt us, we still love you with everything we are.
29. Don't act hard around your friends
30. Sometimes "NO" really means "NO!".
31. "Wife beaters" are not an adequite form of fashion.
32. If we wanted to be on video tape, we`d be a porn star. NOT your girlfriend.
33. Sensitive guys are great.. but crying more than we do in a movie just isn't right.
34. Don`t let ex-girlfriends cause drama,relationships are stressful enough.
35. It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.
36. Guys who are good cuddlers = guys who know how to satisfy a woman.
37. "Fat chicks" have feelings, too.
38. Silent treatment, shoulder shrugs, tears, yelling, & nasty looks add up to = YOU DiD SOMETHiNG WRONG.
39. The exscuse "I can't dance" is unacceptable. We`ll appreciate the simple fact that you`re trying.
40. Just because a girl doesn`t pick up on the first ring, doesn`t mean she`s not waiting by the phone.
41. You don`t have to spend alot; if it means alot.
42. Don`t say you love me if you don`t mean it.
43. Don`t lie to us. We will catch you.
44. When the girls get together, we talk about everything. meaning, my bestfriends know everything about you.
kinda true don u find it?? well... at least i do... =P
sometimes to think of it... guys are kind of pathetic... they have to acommodate with us gals and all... haha.. but well well... this is just the way... since parents dote their SONS more... we gals should get more attention when it comes to relationships... think that's the only so called 'pay-back time'... haha... pathetic... donno why... i seem to have a sudden hatred towards guys.... this is just ridiculous... reading on the above 'reasons'... i just feel weird... seems like... also donno wad am i thinking about... ha... guys..... am wondering why they like to take the control over things??? why do they have to raise their voices when we gals aren't going to obey??? why guys like to say that we gals like to act childish?? ha... wonder wad is going through their minds when they are saying all this... don they find that this words are so hurtful and all??? don they ever wonder why we are acting so before even scolding us for all these behaviours??? gals are weird creatures to understand... and me as a gal admit to it... but can't they even make the least effort to try to understand... try seeing things in our point of view?? why do we gals always have to do things that the guys think are right?? why can't we have the very right to be us?? when we are happy and cheery and bpuncing around... they say we are childish... when we are quiet and moody.. they complain that we are giving them faces... why is this always the case??? when we made a decision for ourselves... they always object... wad we do are always wrong in their eyes.... and when we try to voice bout the things they are doing... they give us faces and say we are tying them down... wad is all this??? they have the right to say 'hi' to their gal frens on the streets.... but us?? they will go on questioning bout whose the guy and all... and when it comes to us asking them who's that gal and stuffs liddat... they say we have no trust in them.... no faith... but hey... how bout the trust that we deserve?? guys always expect us to console and comfort them after their so called 'work'.. asking us to understand and all... but do they try to understand the things we are going through??? we need someone to support us too... its not that we want to complain that u guys have no time for us... if we don... think u all will just forget our very existance... burying urself in things that u guys think are worth doing... u guys always say that u care.. u love us and all... but ur actions never show so... actions speaks louder than words... we don need u to say i love u and all everyday... but show it when ever we are together.... u guys wan us to spend our time on u yea??? and yet u expect us to share the time u have with ur work and frens... is this fair??? and i really wonder wad made up the brains of the guys... they are all suffering from STM... never remembering the things they said.. and say sorry in the end... wad's this??? 'sorry' seem to be the word they will use to cover everything.. wad we gals wan is not sorry... wad we wan is u making an effort to remember... ha.... frens... think u all must be thinking i am crazy to have written all this down.... but this is really how i feel... frens round me are having this kinda problems too.. think we gals must really unite to prevent much 'tragedies'... haha... we must find one another for help... if the guys are going to be mean... we will play mean too... hmpt!!! do self reflection okie... all this wouldn't have happened if u guys haven't been selfish... and ur selfish acts triggered our petty nature... hmpt!!! saying that we are childish to make a big fuss over small matters?? well.. we are always deprived of the things u guys have since young... so can't blame it... don expect and think that we gals can realy be like u guys... easy come easy go... its never going to be the case... yes... we will forgive u... but we won't FORGET! hmpt! scary huh?? we can get even scarier if we wan... ha... after venting so much... i think i better stop... if not... i donno wad will happen... i just hope that u peeps can realy reflect on ur behaviours... BE MORE SENSITIVE TO OUR FEELINGS!!!
`iSplashed
@ 9:55 AM
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Saturday, November 19, 2005
after so long...
eh... hahaha... pai seh arh... didn't blog for so long... kinda loose the mood lei... lol... also donno why... maybe cos my mind is now soooo occupied?? =P bleh... wadever la... haha... now i am using this time to get some things out for u peeps to read la... this week... not i wan to say arh... its a really really suffering week for me... =S cos like don see my darl much... so sad... last time will meet him in the morning then after sch... but this week... wth... can only see him in the morning... =S spending lesser time together... ha... but cannot blame him la... cos his band is going to perform mah... so need to practice... so i try to tahan lor... but hor... also donno why... i feel very weird lei... then this whole week mood damn bad... keep screaming at my sis and all at home... talking loudly to my parents... then when my darl calls me... omg... tears flowing le... ha... cried every night... miss him soooo much... ha... never know i can miss him that much... haha... and that's how i survived for the week... thought have to wait till fri than can meet him after sch again... haha.. hee... but cos he is not going to bluetails with his band.. so waited for him in sch... then heard something... "dear... we won't be performing this week... is next fri..." OMG!!!!!!! its like soooooo wth la... i suffered so much this week... then end up performance is next week... in conclusion... i have to tahan for another week more... ARGH!!!!!!!! i am going crazy la... wth... curse curse curse... ha... the band like so happy... think i am the only one who is so upset about it la... hmpt! think my darl and i will be spending lesser time together le... cos have so many things to do... ha... sad... i really cannot imagine wad will happen if he goes overseas... go army... argh... think i will die... drown in my own tears arh... or cry till dehydrated... hmpt! and cos of not meeting him... i somehow finished the grounding thingy i have to serve la... got grounded by darl cos went out too late that wed... when i went for job interview... ha... hmmm.... darl say he is going to find one day then we spend the whole day together... but... ha... i am sure this day won't come la... not that i don believe him or wad la... but seriously lor... i cannot see this day... if say time for a movie or for a meal... then maybe la... but a whole day?? ha... its like so hard for him to get out la... then everyday after sch... bout nite time... his dad will send him this template like thingy.. really lor standard de.. "where are u?"... "bila nak balek?(wad time coming home)"... haha... no comments la... anyway... i got the ice-cream job... but still donno when starting la... have to wait for ah bee to confirm with me again... donno why... suddenly i feel like crying lei... so sad... donno wad is happening to me... like... emotions get swayed very easily... and cry more and more often... cry over little little things... and especially things that have to do with my darl... i don wan myself to be liddat... i don like myself to be liddat... i am supposed to be a strong gal... i never cry that easily... but now... there seem to be a change... i seem so vulnerable... i seem so... argh... i also donno wad to say... hate it... so useless... so weak... now i can't even sing properly... sux... i don seem to be able to do things properly... i feel lost... i feel that everyone around me distant away from me... ppl who use to be so close now seem so unfamiliar... i don seem to have frens around me... no one to talk to... no one to confide in... this feeling... it sux... its like how i felt in sec2... so alone... i am like abandoned on some strange island... i finding the way out of there... back to where i use to be... suddenly felt as if i lost alot of things... and i find myself not able to lose my darl... seems like... he have really became part of my life... seems like... i really cannot live without him... i am feeling so insecure now... i am afraid... i am really afraid... u know... the feeling i have when i hear his voice over the phone.. reminded me of the time when i call my mum in sch when i was still a primary sch kid... i use to cry whenever i call my mum in sch... like... the feeling just made me sad... its really crazy to think that its so... suddenly thought of past relationships i have... not mentioning jack... the others... they have never gave me such strong feelings... isit cos my thinking got more matured?? isit cos i finally have the feeling of settling down... as in not playing and wandering around??? well... think maybe age do play a part... i and seeking for peace now... i am tired of the days when i just lead a carefree and playful life... i use to be a sailing ship looking for a harbour... now that i have found mine... i don wish to... and never would wan to leave... ha... lots of thoughts are running through my head now... all messed up... confusing... i have no idea wad is the meaning of me living on once again... it seems like i am living quite aimlessly now.... meaningless life... ha... nvm... lets just forget it... don wanna talk on anymore... if not... it will never have a ending... well.. peeps.. think i will end now la... ha... cya again soon... oh ya... think i am going to get long hair next... haha... crazy le la... cya...
`iSplashed
@ 9:22 PM
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Saturday, November 12, 2005
i donno wad to do, donno wad to say
back after not blogging for so long... sorry peeps... cos really tired and have no time to blog... my life have been fine... time have been bout the same... schling... spending time with my darl... hmmm... went for an job interview though... job for selling ice-cream??? lol... italian gelato... if got in will be working on wed, sat and sun... ha... $5.50/hr... not bad la... public holiday will be $6.50/hr... much better than corica... most probably will get the job... cos bee is also 1 of the share holder... lol... she and her fren... think its going to be quite fun... can learn to make ice-cream and waffle... lol... looking forward to it... i have no mood to write any further now.. think i will just stop here... sorry peeps... but i really am not feeling very good... frens... wad i need is frens to talk to now... can anyone hear me??? =S
`iSplashed
@ 7:20 PM
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Sunday, November 06, 2005
happy 1mth anni
yo peeps... haha... went out with my darl darl today... for??? well... for our 1st month anni... weeeee~~ LOL... darl was so sweet... though he know he isn't supposed to be out... he still spend his lunch time with me... just to celebrate this really special day... and this gondo boy boy... said a long speech last nite 12am that made me go... '*sobx sobx*.... *sniff sniff*...' LOL... silly me to have teared... well well well... that darl of my checked out the net and decided that we go have lunch in Fish n Co... LOL... am kinda worried for him... cos he don really take seafood... but hmm... since he said he wanna try and he claims that he eats seafood.. we headed in... hahahha... ordered the usual seafood platter for 2... its wonderful to be sharing food with my darl darl... its just OMG-ly great... and the music they are playing are simply my favourites... hmmm... keep stuffing him with food... fish, prawns, calamari... lalala~ i don care... i want him to eat... and he said that reminds him of his grandma... dear dear... i became his 'grandma'?? no way... bleh! lol... and he too... stuffing food into my plate... sounds like food fight?? nah... its peaceful okie.. LOL... after eating the huge pan of food... we headed back... cos darl have to be back home by 4... poor him... have to rush here and there... well well... we took bus 7 to clementi... then change to bus 99 back my house... LOL... donno why... since fri.. we have been taking buses... maybe cos we can get seats more easily in buses bah... wahaha... we are old le... so need to sit... ha... bus ride with darl is never boring... haha... darl is soooo cute... but on the way darl's tummy aching... all cos of the seafood... haha... he has weak gastric... so darl arh... we won't ever eat seafood again... don wan u to suffer the after effect anymore.. and that's that... no room for negotiation.... LOL... =P that's all for the celebration... heex... sounds like no big deal?? but hey... its a big deal to me okie.. bleh! wadever things that has to do with my darl will be a big deal to me... hmpt~~ =P hahahhaha... this silly guy... even thought of buying insurance... say he have to plan for our future?? and LOL... upon hearing this... i donno why... i just burst into laughter... heex... sorry darl... donno why... i just laughed... feel like laughing... ha... this boy boy just never fail to make me happy and smiling away... ha... me and my darl don have a pic taken together yet... at first wanna take today de... but dear me... i forgotten... ha... remembered darl kept wanting to take pic of both of us... but i insisted not to... all cos... cos... i wanna save it till today... LOL... silly me right... but i forgotten... ha... nvm.... we will take it someday... =P okie la... that's all for today??? bleh!! wan full details?? nah... am going to keep it as a secret between me and my darl... heex...
happy anni darl.... happy happy happy... *silly grins*
`iSplashed
@ 8:36 PM
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1st month
ha.... time flies... its the 1st month for me and my darl... weet weet~~ *round of applause... wahaha.... *silly grins* hmmm... am really happy... elated... 1 month passed... really fast man... thinking back... its kinda amazing... from just knowing him on my bdae... to guardian and angel... to now he is my darl... everything is just amazing... and am really glad that i met him that very time in my life... thanks for being willing to become part of my life darl... we still have a long way to go yea... am more and more in love with u... *muacks*
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@ 12:00 PM
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