Wednesday, November 30, 2005
understanding gals
44 things guys shld noe abt gerls.
1. Don`t tell us when you think other girls are hot.
2. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
3. If you don't act like soap-opera guys, don`t expect us to dress like Victoria Secret Models.
4. Mark anniversaries on the calendar.
5. We think about you all the time
6 This is how we see it : Don't call = Don't care.
7. Which also means that if we don`t call, take a hint.
8. We like you to be a little jealous. But overly possesive is not necessary.
9. Being able to make us laugh is so much more important than knowing how much you can bench-press.
10. We're allowed to be late. You're not.
11. Eye contact is the key.
12. Don't take longer to get ready than we do.
13. Laugh at our jokes.
14. 3 words: honesty, honesty, honesty!
15. Girls can be groupies. Guy groupies are stalkers.
16. Do not start with us. You will not win.
17. Would you like it if a guy treated your sister that way? Didn't think so.
18 If you ask nicely, we`ll answer the same way.
19. We will never have enough clothes or shoes.
20. We have an excuse for being bitchy at least once a month.
21 Open the door for us no matter where we are.
22. We love surprises.
23. We like to be kissed softly. Not with an iron tongue.
24. Pay attention to the little things we do,because they mean the most.
25. Boxers and maybe boxer briefs sometimes.Never tighty-whities!
26. Always brush your teeth before you see us. A fresh mouth and white teeth are a necessity.
27. Clean your room before we come over.
28. Even though you're sometimes insensitive and hurt us, we still love you with everything we are.
29. Don't act hard around your friends
30. Sometimes "NO" really means "NO!".
31. "Wife beaters" are not an adequite form of fashion.
32. If we wanted to be on video tape, we`d be a porn star. NOT your girlfriend.
33. Sensitive guys are great.. but crying more than we do in a movie just isn't right.
34. Don`t let ex-girlfriends cause drama,relationships are stressful enough.
35. It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.
36. Guys who are good cuddlers = guys who know how to satisfy a woman.
37. "Fat chicks" have feelings, too.
38. Silent treatment, shoulder shrugs, tears, yelling, & nasty looks add up to = YOU DiD SOMETHiNG WRONG.
39. The exscuse "I can't dance" is unacceptable. We`ll appreciate the simple fact that you`re trying.
40. Just because a girl doesn`t pick up on the first ring, doesn`t mean she`s not waiting by the phone.
41. You don`t have to spend alot; if it means alot.
42. Don`t say you love me if you don`t mean it.
43. Don`t lie to us. We will catch you.
44. When the girls get together, we talk about everything. meaning, my bestfriends know everything about you.
kinda true don u find it?? well... at least i do... =P
sometimes to think of it... guys are kind of pathetic... they have to acommodate with us gals and all... haha.. but well well... this is just the way... since parents dote their SONS more... we gals should get more attention when it comes to relationships... think that's the only so called 'pay-back time'... haha... pathetic... donno why... i seem to have a sudden hatred towards guys.... this is just ridiculous... reading on the above 'reasons'... i just feel weird... seems like... also donno wad am i thinking about... ha... guys..... am wondering why they like to take the control over things??? why do they have to raise their voices when we gals aren't going to obey??? why guys like to say that we gals like to act childish?? ha... wonder wad is going through their minds when they are saying all this... don they find that this words are so hurtful and all??? don they ever wonder why we are acting so before even scolding us for all these behaviours??? gals are weird creatures to understand... and me as a gal admit to it... but can't they even make the least effort to try to understand... try seeing things in our point of view?? why do we gals always have to do things that the guys think are right?? why can't we have the very right to be us?? when we are happy and cheery and bpuncing around... they say we are childish... when we are quiet and moody.. they complain that we are giving them faces... why is this always the case??? when we made a decision for ourselves... they always object... wad we do are always wrong in their eyes.... and when we try to voice bout the things they are doing... they give us faces and say we are tying them down... wad is all this??? they have the right to say 'hi' to their gal frens on the streets.... but us?? they will go on questioning bout whose the guy and all... and when it comes to us asking them who's that gal and stuffs liddat... they say we have no trust in them.... no faith... but hey... how bout the trust that we deserve?? guys always expect us to console and comfort them after their so called 'work'.. asking us to understand and all... but do they try to understand the things we are going through??? we need someone to support us too... its not that we want to complain that u guys have no time for us... if we don... think u all will just forget our very existance... burying urself in things that u guys think are worth doing... u guys always say that u care.. u love us and all... but ur actions never show so... actions speaks louder than words... we don need u to say i love u and all everyday... but show it when ever we are together.... u guys wan us to spend our time on u yea??? and yet u expect us to share the time u have with ur work and frens... is this fair??? and i really wonder wad made up the brains of the guys... they are all suffering from STM... never remembering the things they said.. and say sorry in the end... wad's this??? 'sorry' seem to be the word they will use to cover everything.. wad we gals wan is not sorry... wad we wan is u making an effort to remember... ha.... frens... think u all must be thinking i am crazy to have written all this down.... but this is really how i feel... frens round me are having this kinda problems too.. think we gals must really unite to prevent much 'tragedies'... haha... we must find one another for help... if the guys are going to be mean... we will play mean too... hmpt!!! do self reflection okie... all this wouldn't have happened if u guys haven't been selfish... and ur selfish acts triggered our petty nature... hmpt!!! saying that we are childish to make a big fuss over small matters?? well.. we are always deprived of the things u guys have since young... so can't blame it... don expect and think that we gals can realy be like u guys... easy come easy go... its never going to be the case... yes... we will forgive u... but we won't FORGET! hmpt! scary huh?? we can get even scarier if we wan... ha... after venting so much... i think i better stop... if not... i donno wad will happen... i just hope that u peeps can realy reflect on ur behaviours... BE MORE SENSITIVE TO OUR FEELINGS!!!
`iSplashed
@ 9:55 AM
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